What Right Do Christians Have to Tell Me How to Live?

Q: I don’t like proud Christians who arrogantly claim that they know how God wants everyone else to behave. I don’t tell them how to run their lives, so what right do they have to tell me how to run mine? — C.C.

A: No true Christian should be arrogant or proud — not if they understand what the Bible says. Pride is a sin in the eyes of God, not only because it separates us from Him but it cuts us off from others. The Bible warns, “The Lord detests all the proud of heart” (Proverbs 16:5).

Why should Christians be humble? One reason is because we can never claim to be perfect. No matter who we are, we’re still imperfect and sinful in God’s eyes. Furthermore, we know we’ve been saved only because of God’s grace and mercy, and not because we’re better than anyone else. Humility and gentleness should be the marks of anyone who seeks to follow Jesus, not pride or arrogance. The Bible says, “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith … so that no one can boast” (Ephesians 2:8-9).

My real hope, however, is that you would look past the failures and faults of some who may have offended you, and look instead at Jesus Christ. Have you ever done that? When you do, you’ll discover a truth that could change your life: God loves you, and He wants what is best for you.

Don’t center your life on yourself, constantly demanding to have your own way. If you do, eventually you’ll find you’re on a dead-end road. Instead, face honestly your need for God, and open your heart and life to Jesus Christ. He’ll not only forgive your past, but He’ll give you a whole new purpose and joy in living.

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(This column is based on the words and writings of the late Rev. Billy Graham.)

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