I surely respect so much Pat Jaramillo and Pastor Paul Jaramillo. I have preached at their Church several times, Open Door Bible Ministry. Pat is so loving and kind as his Pastor Paul. What a great couple who serve the Los Alamos, NM area with the love of JESUS! Two peas in a pod, for sure!
It is not east being a Pastors wife that is for sure. My Sharon has been hurt at times on how I have been treated from Christians. My goodness. Lord have mercy! But, Sharon is a tough lady, filled with the love of JESUS! We are one.
Do not take your Pastor and his wife for granted.
Baptist Press
By Jacki C. King, posted October 14, 2024
October, a month often dedicated to celebrating pastors, also offers a unique opportunity to acknowledge the invaluable role of their wives. As a pastor’s wife for nearly two decades, I’ve experienced the incredible privilege of witnessing God’s work firsthand. Yet, this privileged position also comes with its share of challenges, including betrayal, loneliness, and even a sense of spiritual warfare.
The term “church hurt” encapsulates the painful experiences that individuals can encounter within a church setting. For pastor’s wives, who are often expected to serve, encourage, and lead, the wounds inflicted can be particularly deep. These experiences, often kept hidden, contribute to the loneliness and discouragement many face during difficult seasons of ministry.
The Invisible Ache
Church hurt for pastor’s wives can manifest in countless ways, often leaving us feeling isolated, undervalued, and betrayed. I’ve personally experienced being ignored, uninvited, talked about behind my back, and constantly feeling like I had to be the bigger person. The sorrow I’ve carried is deep, but it’s also led to a more intimate and profound relationship with Jesus.
Mirroring What We Experience of Jesus
One of the most painful experiences I’ve faced as a pastor’s wife was when a longtime member and friend unexpectedly left our church. Through a series of misunderstandings and unspoken words, it felt like we’d been dropped. The pain was intense, and I questioned everything. I cried out to God, pleading for His intervention, but the situation didn’t unfold as I had hoped. In moments of pain and confusion, the Bible has been my anchor, and even in the midst of pain, God is working redemptively and has a purpose in the journey. More Here